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Dating and the Numbers Game

Do yourself a favor, here is an eye-opening test: try meeting women for the same periods of time with two different strategies. It has to be long enough to eliminate coincidences, like 3 months:

first 3 months you go out using all the seduction crap you have learned so far,
for the next 3 months you use common sense – but make the same effort as when you are using seduction techniques, work on your confidence, sense of humor, wear nice clothes.

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Why Seduction Techniques Don't Matter

Most important of all: approach as many chicks as when using the alpha-lame strategies, and have fun with it! You only need basic psychology, available on the Internet for free.
I am sure your results will be more or less the same.

I have no problem with men giving advice to other men on dealing with women. Who wants to hear more woman talk about relationships? The problem is when you start believing that these techniques and ONLY them are responsible for your success. When you treat it like some kind of macho ideology. Even worse when you start believing they had something to do with your defeat: „I got rejected! How come? This stuff is bulletproof! It must have been MY FAULT. I tried so hard and I fucked it up!" No, you were simply not her type. Move on!

The Numbers Game, Not Game

Like one of the viewers of this website correctly noticed under another section – accepting the fact that attraction cannot be created is very liberating!

You don't have to worry about every aspect of your interaction with women. Some gamers become so obsessed with all those pseudo-scientific theories that it sabotages their every attempt to meet women. Words of wisdom from G (comment taken from "Her Type" section) a recovered PUA:

What used to frustrate me in the past was that I was expecting to meet someone worthwhile every time I went out because in my own mind I was a master PUA.
But now that I understand that it's a simple numbers game, I just play the numbers and don't expect much from any given interaction or from any given girl.
I take comfort in the fact that if I just keeping going out and playing the numbers, I am GUARANTEED to meet someone sooner or later. I know that if I talk to 20-25 girls, I'll soon have a girlfriend. It really all comes down to finding 20-25 girls I'm interested in and saying Hi.

Think Outside the Seduction Box

I heard someone complaining that I want you to spend months testing it. Well, if you prefer to ASSUME game works, go ahead. Loose YEARS of your life studying something that has as much to do with reality as the horoscope saying you will meet a beautiful blonde within the next two weeks.

Don't let your mind fool you. We human beings have very lousy judgement skills, especially when we have to estimate something that happened in our lives. For instance many obese people actually truly think they don't eat that much. Whereas skinny ones often overestimate the amount of food they consume.

It's obvious that people who are into something spend more time not only reading about it, but very often practicing it. So even if you are not an antisocial nerd, it's almost certain you approached more girls after joining the seduction cult than before. Hence the impression these techniques brought you more chicks. In fact you owe it to math, not seduction. You bought more lotery tickets.

Sexual attraction can be studied like any other subject that concerns human interactions. Homo sum humani a me nihil alienum puto - which means in Latin: I am a human being nothing human is strange to me. I want to motivate you to think outside the box. It's not like there is only the unorthodox PUA approach on one side and on the other regular concepts like: women are only after the money, girlish horoscope fortune cookie philosophy, and beauty. Dig further.

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